Develop the Relationship Intelligence™ to recognize the hidden patterns shaping your relationship, create emotional safety, and build the kind of partnership where both of you can truly flourish.
Ignored big or small negative and hurtful words and habits will kill your relationship.
But the most dangerous relationship problems are the quiet ones. . . the subtle drifting that you miss. Things that keep you awake at night thinking:
I’m so tired of having the same argument over and over.
We love each other, why then do I feel so disconnected.
We function will as business partners, but it feels like we are more rommates than lovers.
We can’t talk about difficult things without it escalating.
I love the successful lives we have built, but our relationship feels strained. What gives?
The good news is that Interruption of unhealthy patterns, plus small positive actions and words, done regularly, can transform your marriage into a thriving connected and happy one.
As a specialist in relationships and communication I work with high-performing couples to identify and recalibrate the patterns that are quietly creating disconnection — so their relationship becomes aligned, responsive, and sustainable again.
With my help you can go from a loop of drifting apart, negativity, and conflict to rekindling a connected & highly successful loving relationship.
Discover proven strategies to:
communicate so you both get your needs met.
interrupt patterns of conflict to benefit your relationship.
deepen the friendship, intimacy, and fun in your marriage.
recover the "heads over heels in love" feelings.
enjoy an awesome sex life.
be real connected partners in all areas of life and love.
After working with Dr. Ada, couples say things like:
-Dr. Ada helped us turn our relationship around.
-We know now how to interrupt conflict so we don’t become mean.
-Now we can communicate well most of the time.
-Dr. Ada really cared about us and understood our needs.
In this short video Dr. Ada reflects about the power of conversations for connecting, collaborating, and creating change.
I’m Dr. Ada Gonzalez, a Relationship and Transformation Specialist with a Ph.D. in Interdisciplinary Studies and am also licensed as a marriage and family therapist. For more than 30 years I have been helping hurting couples. I offer my 8-components CONNECT™ Method: Relationship Reset System, a Relationship Intelligence Mastery Structured Experience for High-Achieving Couples Who Want More Than Professional Success—They Want to develop an Intimate Heart Connection. You can reset and stabilize your relationship dynamic so that your relationship becomes aligned, responsive, and sustainable again.
From Bickering to Understanding: Effective Communication Strategies For Lovers A 6 weeks self-directed program for couples that want to have effective communication and get out of negativity. Includes videos, guides for dialogue, summaries, and more.
Through Relationship Resets you can stop bickering and transform the challenges you are experiencing into growth and intimacy.
The programs offered will change the course of your marriage. See which one is the best fit for you!
Relationship Retreats are for couples who want to spend a concentrated time working on their relationships. Whether it be for focused help to address especially difficult situations, or more of an enrichment option, retreats offer several days of concentrated help and special interaction.
My one-on-one Relationship Conversations high end signature program creates the structure and the support that gives you the space to explore what is really going on inside you and your relationship. It's totally individualized to your needs. It require a commitment to at least 6-8 months of high end coaching.
Dr. Ada is a Licensed Mariage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
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“Dr. Ada was able to quickly detect what was wrong and then helped us find the best path going forward. The counseling met and surpassed our expectations and we felt very comfortable with her relaxed and informal style. We are now in a much better place as a family.”
— The Smiths
Gracias por tantos consejos que usted nos diera años atrás. Fueron determinantes en nuestras vidas. 45+ años después, seguimos juntos mi esposo y yo, con mucho amor, comprensión, respeto, agradecimiento, etc.
Thanks for the counseling you gave us many years ago. It was determinant in our lives. 45+ years after, my husband and I are still together with much love, understanding, respect, thankfulness, etc.
–Isabel y Jorge
“A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”
