From Power Struggles to Partnership

Helping ambitious, high-achieving couples who love each other

but feel stuck in recurring patterns of conflict, communication breakdowns,

and disconnection move from reacting to understanding,

from conflict to collaboration, and

from feeling like adversaries to functioning as a team.

Because lasting love requires more than chemistry

—it requires Relationship Intelligence.

You'll learn how to understand, navigate, and repair relationship dynamics in real time so you can build deeper trust, stronger communication, and lasting emotional connection.

Ada Luz Gonzalez, Ph.D., LMFT

Relationship Intelligence Specialist

Creator of the CONNECT Method & Relationship Reset Program

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Relationship Reset System For High Achieving Couples!

Reclaim your marriage and develop a thriving partnership

I help high-achieving couples stop having the same fight over and over again, and instead make the simple shifts that can change everything, by developing the Relational Intelligence that will give you the skills to ensure you can . . .

Calm the conflict
Open understanding
Nurture emotional connection
Navigate relational patterns with ease and effectiveness
Empower partnership
Cultivate connection
Thrive in Intimacy
Create a Shared Future

Neglecting anything destroys it. A car. Your health. Your happiness. Your relationships. . .

Ignored big or small negative and hurtful words and habits will kill your relationship.

But the most dangerous relationship problems are the quiet ones. . . the subtle drifting that you miss. Things that keep you awake at night thinking:

I’m so tired of having the same argument over and over.
We love each other, why then do I feel so disconnected.
We function will as business partners, but it feels like we are more rommates than lovers.
We can’t talk about difficult things without it escalating.
I love the successful lives we have built, but our relationship feels strained. What gives?
The good news is that Interruption of unhealthy patterns, plus small positive actions and words, done regularly, can transform your marriage into a thriving connected and happy one.

As an expert in relationships and communication I work with high-performing couples to identify and recalibrate the patterns that are quietly creating disconnection — so their relationship becomes aligned, responsive, and sustainable again.

With my help you can go from a loop of drifting apart, negativity, and conflict to rekindling a connected & highly successful loving relationship.

Discover proven strategies to:

communicate so you both get your needs met.
interrupt patterns of conflict to benefit your relationship.
deepen the friendship, intimacy, and fun in your marriage.
recover the "heads over heels in love" feelings.
enjoy an awesome sex life.
be real connected partners in all areas of life and love.

After working with Dr. Ada, couples say things like:

-Dr. Ada helped us turn our relationship around.

-We know now how to interrupt conflict so we don’t become mean.

-Now we can communicate well most of the time.

-Dr. Ada really cared about us and understood our needs.

I want to book a relationship reset strategy session

I’m Dr. Ada Gonzalez, a Relationship and Transformation Specialist with a Ph.D. in Interdisciplinary Studies and am also licensed as a marriage and family therapist. For more than 30 years I have been helping hurting couples. I offer my 8-components CONNECT™ Method: Relationship Reset System, a Relationship Intelligence Mastery Structured Experience for High-Achieving Couples Who Want More Than Professional Success—They Want to develop an Intimate Heart Connection. You can reset and stabilize your relationship dynamic so that your relationship becomes aligned, responsive, and sustainable again.

Don’t look for a different relationship. Transform the one you have!

Programs & Retreats

Our Transformative Conversations Coaching Programs and Retreats will lead you to new ways of interacting, thinking, and behaving. The result will be a fresh connection and an extraordinary daily love life. You will find and keep the spark of passion and love!

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DIY Programs

From Bickering to Understanding: Effective Communication Strategies For Lovers A 6 weeks self-directed program for couples that want to have effective communication and get out of negativity. Includes videos, guides for dialogue, summaries, and more.

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couple’s coaching

Relationship coaching will help you stop bickering and transform the challenges you are experiencing into growth and intimacy.

These programs will change the course of your marriage. Check them out!

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Couple’s retreat

Relationship Retreats are for couples who want to spend a concentrated time working on their relationships. Whether it be for focused help to address especially difficult situations, or more of an enrichment option, retreats offer several days of special interaction.

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coaching Conversations

My one-on-one Coaching Conversations high end signature program creates the structure and the support that gives you the space to explore what is really going on inside you and your relationship. It's totally individualized to your needs. It require a commitment to at least 6 months of coaching.

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Dr. Ada is a Licensed Mariage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

For more information about what this means, go to the About Page.

Underneath all the issues, partners are asking each other: Can I count on you? Am I valued and accepted by you? Do you need me, rely on me? In difficult times, you need to invest in your most important relationship.

Your relationship deserves your attention!

A Gift from Dr. Ada

Effective

Communication

You can start improving your relationship by receiving a gift from me: Basic Rules for Effective Communication. Ask for them right away!

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Proven Results

“Dr. Ada was able to quickly detect what was wrong and then helped us find the best path going forward. The counseling met and surpassed our expectations and we felt very comfortable with her relaxed and informal style. We are now in a much better place as a family.”

— The Smiths

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what clients say

Gracias por tantos consejos que usted nos diera años atrás. Fueron determinantes en nuestras vidas. 45+ años después, seguimos juntos mi esposo y yo, con mucho amor, comprensión, respeto, agradecimiento, etc.

Thanks for the counseling you gave us many years ago. It was determinant in our lives. 45+ years after, my husband and I are still together with much love, understanding, respect, thankfulness, etc.

–Isabel y Jorge

You can check some more of the comments that couples have made about our Relationship Coaching and Programs. To preserve the identity of the couples we will share only their first names.

From Power Struggles to Partnership

Helping ambitious, high-achieving couples who love each other

but feel stuck in recurring patterns of conflict, communication breakdowns,

and disconnection move from reacting to understanding,

from conflict to collaboration, and

from feeling like adversaries to functioning as a team.

Because lasting love requires more than chemistry

—it requires Relationship Intelligence.

You'll learn how to understand, navigate, and repair relationship dynamics in real time so you can build deeper trust, stronger communication, and lasting emotional connection.

Ada Luz Gonzalez, Ph.D., LMFT

Relationship Intelligence Specialist

Relationship Reset System For High Achieving Couples!

Reclaim your marriage and develop a thriving partnership

I help high-achieving couples stop having the same fight over and over again, and instead make the simple shifts that can change everything, by developing the Relational Intelligence that will give you the skills to ensure you can . . .

Calm the conflict

Open understanding

Nurture emotional connection

Navigate relational patterns with ease and effectiveness

Empower partnership

Cultivate connection

Thrive in Intimacy

Create a Shared Future

Neglecting anything destroys it. A car. Your health. Your happiness. Your relationships. . .

Don’t look for a different relationship. Transform the one you have!

Programs & Retreats

Our Transformative Conversations Coaching Programs and Retreats will lead you to new ways of interacting, thinking, and behaving. The result will be a fresh connection and an extraordinary daily love life. You will find and keep the spark of passion and love!

DIY Programs

couple’s coaching

Couple’s retreat

coaching Conversations

Underneath all the issues, partners are asking each other: Can I count on you? Am I valued and accepted by you? Do you need me, rely on me? In difficult times, you need to invest in your most important relationship.

Your relationship deserves your attention!

A Gift from Dr. Ada

Effective

Communication

Proven Results

what clients say

You can check some more of the comments that couples have made about our Relationship Coaching and Programs. To preserve the identity of the couples we will share only their first names.